The trap of sex in social insects: From the female to the male perspective

•Male phenotype in social Hymenoptera is explored beyond sex stereotypes.•Male phenotype is a natural experiment to compare natural versus sexual selection.•The subtle role of neglected drones and mate choice in the colony is discussed.•Physical and behavioral traits of males are integrated with neural and hormonal ones.•Polistes dominula male is presented as a suitable model organism for this approach.

The phenotype of male Hymenoptera and the peculiar role of males has been neglected and greatly understudied, given the spectacular cooperative behavior of female social insects. In social insects there has been considerable progress in understanding the molecular mechanisms behind haplodiploid sex determination but, beyond that, very little is known concerning the neural, endocrine, and genetic correlates of sexual selection in males. An opportunity is being missed: the male phenotype in Hymenoptera is a natural experiment to compare the drives of natural versus sexual selection. In contrast to females, males do not work, they usually display far from the nest to gain mates, compete among rivals in nuptial flights or for a symbolic territory at leks, and engage in direct or ritualized conflicts. By comparing the available data on male paper wasps with studies on other social Hymenoptera, we summarize what we currently know about the physical, hormonal, neural and behavioral traits in a model system appropriate to examine current paradigms on sexual selection. Here we review male behavior in social Hymenoptera beyond sex stereotypes: the subtle role of “drones” in the colony, the lack of armaments and ornaments, the explosive mating crowds, the “endurance” race, the cognitive bases of the “choosy” male and his immune defense. Social insect males are not just simple-minded mating machines, they are shaped, constrained and perhaps trapped by sexual selection.