Article ID | Journal | Published Year | Pages | File Type |
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948056 | Journal of Experimental Social Psychology | 2012 | 6 Pages |
People generally strive to maintain positive views of themselves. Even in the face of negative feedback, individuals frequently protect the self-concept from incorporating negative information. Two studies examined a potential exception to that rule: whether and when romantic desire may motivate individuals to spontaneously adopt the negative attributes of a potential partner. Study 1 demonstrated the basic effect such that single individuals spontaneously incorporated negative attributes of a potential romantic partner into their self-concepts, and incorporation was magnified by desire for the partner. Study 2 explored boundary conditions of these effects. Negative attributes were only incorporated if the potential partner expressed self-acceptance about possessing these attributes; when potential partners reported wishing to change the negative attribute, it was not adopted into the self-concept. Attribute extremity also moderated incorporation. The implications of these results for understanding the nuances of motivated self-malleability are discussed.
► Romantic desire motivated individuals to adopt negative traits of a target. ► This occurred only when the target was presented as a potential romantic partner. ► This occurred on both explicit and implicit tasks. ► Desire to meet the target magnified negative attribute adoption. ► If the attribute was extremely negative or not a stable part of the potential partner's self, individuals did not adopt it.