| Article ID | Journal | Published Year | Pages | File Type |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 889961 | Personality and Individual Differences | 2015 | 7 Pages |
•We examined assortative mating regarding multidimensional perfectionism.•422 participants completed measures of multidimensional perfectionism.•Then they rated the attractiveness of potential dating partners.•Self-oriented perfectionists found perfectionist dates more attractive.•Other-oriented perfectionists found non-perfectionist dates less attractive.
Assortative mating has been found regarding personality traits, personal attitudes and values, and cognitive abilities, but so far no study has investigated assortative mating regarding multidimensional perfectionism. A total of 422 participants from a non-commercial panel (mean age = 36.0 years) completed measures of self-oriented, other-oriented, and socially prescribed perfectionism and rated the attractiveness of four potential dating partners (“dates”): a self-oriented, an other-oriented, a socially prescribed, and a non-perfectionist date. Results showed that all perfectionist dates were seen as less attractive than the non-perfectionist date. This effect, however, was moderated by self-oriented and other-oriented perfectionism. Participants high in self-oriented perfectionism found all three perfectionist dates more attractive than participants low in self-oriented perfections. Participants high in other-oriented perfectionism found the self-oriented perfectionist date more attractive, and the non-perfectionist date less attractive than participants low in other-oriented perfectionism. The findings are discussed with respect to assortative mating, the social disconnection model of perfectionism, and the heritability of perfectionism.
