Attachment, breakup strategies, and associated outcomes: The effects of security enhancement on the selection of breakup strategies

People tend to use different strategies to dissolve their romantic relationships (Baxter, 1982). The factors predicting selection of breakup strategies, and especially personality factors, have received relatively little attention. In five studies, using community and students samples, we revised the measure used to assess breakup strategy use, examined the outcomes of the revised strategies, and investigated the associations of these strategies with attachment dimensions. Attachment avoidance was associated with using less direct breakup strategies; whereas attachment anxiety was associated with using strategies meant to keep open the option of getting back together. In Studies 4 and 5, attachment-security primes were found to decrease these tendencies. Implications for relationship dissolution and attachment theory are discussed.

► We examine strategies used to terminate romantic relationships and their outcomes. ► We use attachment theory to understand breakup strategy selection. ► We examine the effects of attachment security enhancement on strategy selection. ► Attachment avoidance and anxiety predict use of uncaring and selfish strategies. ► Attachment security enhancement reduces these tendencies.