Honouring identity through mealtimes in families living with dementia

This paper reports the findings from the first year of a longitudinal grounded theory study examining the experience and meaning of mealtimes for persons living with dementia and their family partners in care. Dyad and individual active interviews were conducted with 27 families in the early to mid stages of dementia. Mealtimes provided a window for us as researchers into the broader lives of families living with dementia, reflecting the essence of “who they are”. Families experiencing dementia used mealtimes as a way of honouring identity, being connected, and adapting to and accepting an evolving life. This paper focuses on the theme of honouring identity and the role that mealtimes play in that process. Our findings suggest that individual and family identity are honoured through protecting dignity while struggling for autonomy, having meaningful roles, and reaffirming a sense of self in the world. Implications for theory and practice are discussed.